Not Meant to Offend

I got this in an email from Dr. Andruss and I love it!
Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders and says "Oh Shit- she's awake"!

Kid Tag

1. What is something mom always says about you? that i'm bad
2. What makes mom happy? when I be good
3. What makes mom sad? when i'm bad
4. How does mom make you laugh? jokes
5. What was mom like as a child? I don't have a clue
6. How old is your mom? 27
7. How tall is your mom? I don't know
8. What is your mom's favorite thing to do? shopping at JcPenny
9. What does your mom do when you're not around? talk on the phone to David
10. If your mom becomes famous, what will it be for? being a rock star
11. What is your mom really good at? talking
12. What is your mom not very good at? stop crying
13. What does your mom do for her job? works at a doctor to help people
14. What is your mom's favorite food? I dont' know
15. What makes you proud of your mom? that she's nice to me
16. If your mom was a cartoon character, who would she be? ariel
17. What do you and your mom do together? go shooping, and I don't like it
18. How are you and your mom the same? hair, eyes, earrings
19. How are you and your mom different? you have glasses, you are a grown up, you have bigger feet, you are married
20. How do you know your mom loves you? cause she's nice to me some times

The Weekend

I had another crazy wonderful weekend. Friday I left work earlier, sped home finished packing the car and by 2:30 was on the road. It took me 6 1/2 hours to get to San Diego. Once there I called David to find out where to find our house. I love our house. So cute. It's a townhouse with a big front porch. We can't put anything out on the porch though(military housing rules). You walk in the front door and the front room/living room is on the left or you can head straight up the stairs. As you walk through the living room on the left there is a closet, a half bath and the laundry room. After the living room there is a half wall that divides it from the dining room. The dining room and kitchen and small pantry are at the back of the house on the first floor. The back door leads out to the back patio area and then to the two car garage. Up on the second floor at the top of the stairs is the master bedroom with a bathroom and walk in closet. Then as you go down the hall there is a closet and another bathroom. At the end of the hall is Christys' room, also with a walk in closet. Then you head up the stairs to the third floor. At the top of the stairs there is an open landing with a desk and a huge closet/storage room. Then there is Shadows' bedroom that has a bathroom and walk in closet inside. I absolutely love our new house. I can't wait till I can actually live there with David. And another good thing, Christy's school is about two blocks away from our house. The community we live in has a pool that is kiddie corner across from our house. Saturday I cleaned and put stuff away and went shopping for things we needed. Saturday afternoon we went to Chili's for lunch with Davids parents and Shadow. Sunday we got up early and went to our new ward. In Sunday school we had to introduce ourselves. Davids dad stood up and said I'm Dean Bushar, Davids dad and I got here on Thursday and one of my hearing aids stopped working and then yesterday the other stopped working so if you want me to hear you are gonna have to speak up. It was so funny, and embarrassing. Good old Dean. I laughed so hard. Anyways it seems like a good ward. Then after church we had lunch and then headed home. It took forever to get home. About thirty miles before Barstow it started raining. Ann and Shadow rode home with me. We stopped in Barstow so Shadow could eat and I could gas up. I dropped Shadow and Ann off at McDonalds and went to get gas. The two gas stations by McDonalds were both out of gas, so I drove across the freeway. The first station I tried three times and couldn't get any gas, come to find out they only had Supreme left. But by then I had put my card in the machine too many times so I couldn't get gas there. So I drove across the street to the Cheveron. Tried Plus gas first, no luck it was out. Then I found out(after waiting fifteen minutes for the attendant) that they only had regular left. And of course every one of the fifteen pumps had someone there filling their cars with regular gas. So I waited not so patiently for my tank to fill. What a joke!!!! Finally we were on the road again. Then on the south bound lane I notice there are no cars. Up ahead I see a helicopter on the freeway. There was a pretty bad accident on the south bound lanes. There was life flight, police and fire fighters on the scene. I am so glad that I was headed north. For miles there were cars parked with people everywhere. Finally around seven we got to Vegas and made our way to Shadows house. Can I just tell you that they live in a scary part of Vegas. I was trying so hard not to laugh as Ann knocked on the door. There was junk and garbage everywhere along their house and yard. Finally Tasha opened the door. This was my first time meeting Tasha(not impressed)!!!!! Anyways, enough of that. Finally Ann and I made it to St. George. At about ten thirty I made it home. My mom had let Christy stay up so I could visit with her and find out all the fun things she had done with Grandma Cosgrove(at this point it had been a little over a week since I had seen Christy). Then after getting her to bed and ready to fall asleep myself I remembered that none of my scrubs were clean. So up I got and did laundry. Today it was so hard to get out of bed. But here I am at work, worrying about David because I haven't talked to him since halfway through our trip home yesterday and he was upset when I talked to him last(something Tasha said). Anyways Ann and I had a great talk on the trip. Can I just tell you that I love David so much!!! I can't wait till we can live together. Anyways that was about the extent of my crazy, wonderful weekend!!!

My Ring

This is what my ring looks like. I know they are not very good pictures. They were taken with a cell phone. But you get the basic idea.

I feel like a kid who got caught with their hand in the cookie jar..

I blush with embarrassment as I write this blog. As you know the memory blog has been going around. So I wrote memories on a few peoples blogs, some good, some memories of us just being the teenagers that we were. Talking to Amber yesterday I found out that my mom reads our blogs on a regular basis. I knew that once or twice I had showed my mom my blog but I had no idea that she actually read them. So yesterday talking with mom she said she couldn't believe some of the things that we did. Oops....what can I say. I guess mom will learn more about the things we did from reading our blogs. Amber be careful, don't let mom know all our little secrets!!! :) Mom I love you! Thanks for all you do for me and my little family!!!

"No teaching is equal, more spiritually rewarding, or more exalting than that of a mother teaching her children."
Boyd K. Packer - Ensign, Feb. 2000, 16

My Ring

So I totally feel like Amber today. I have spent so much time on blogs...oh well. J/K Amber I love you!! So today a few minutes after I got back from going to the mall and buying Kayley a birthday present, Kay Jewelers called and said my ring was ready for me to pick up. So back to the mall I go. My ring is beautiful!!! So now I just need to get my engagement band with the flowers sized and then get the two pieces sautered (I have no idea how to spell this) together. I am so excited. My ring is so sparkley.

A Fun Tag..Thanks Amber

I Am... a momma, wife, sister, friend, daughter, tired, LPT, ROT, Master Caster.
I Think... I need a haircut or something drastic done with my hair.
I Know....that prayers are answered!
I Want... to live with my husband.
I Have... a wonderful family and a wonderful life and a wonderful husband. So many blessings!
I Wish... that Shadow and Christy got along better, and that I was more patient.
I Hate...David will put me in time out if I say that word, we are trying to get the girls not to say it.
I Miss... Christy
I Fear... letting people down.
I Feel... tired, I worked so hard last night.
I Smell... nothing.
I Wonder... when my ring will be ready.
I Regret... a lot of things...way too many to even start.
I Love... David, Christy, Shadow, my amazing family, my bestest sister Amber, again so many things. Too many to list.
I Care.... about my family and friends.
I Always...brush my teeth, say my prayers, and EAT.
I am NOT... patient.
I Believe... that Heavenly Father sends us the people, and blessings we need when we need them. Amber I semi-copied your answer.
I Dance...never, that would not be a pretty sight.
I Sing... in the car, and in church.
I Don't Always... do the dishes, sometimes I let them pile up for a few days.
I Write...on my blog more than in my journal, I used to write in mine and Christy's journals every Sunday.
I Win...arguments, I am always right!! j/k most of the time David is right.(don't anyone tell him that though!!)
I Lose...my patience with Christy too often.
I Never...this one is hard, I don't have an answer.
I Listen... to the radio in the car.
I Can Usually be found...at work, or driving to San Diego.
I Am Scared Of... something else happening to Christy, she has been thru so much already in her little life.
I Read...everything I can get my hands on, anytime I can steal a minute for myself. I love to read! Sorry Amber copied this answer to.
I Am Happy About...being able to see David this weekend, and moving into our new house. :)
I tag...everyone who wants to do this.

Dinner with The Bushar's

Earlier this week my mother in law called and invited me to family dinner on Sunday. It's kinda funny last week I talked to my mother in law more than my mom. Not saying that's a bad thing, I just found it funny. So yesterday I drove to Enterprise for dinner. I went by myself because David is in San Diego and Christy is in Provo visiting her dads family. We had such yummy food!! It was fun hanging out and getting to know everyone better. I also got to hold Rachelles' baby. SO CUTE!!!!! Davids' family makes me feel so comfortable. Dean and Ann(my in laws) are renting a truck this week and taking most of mine and David's belongings to our house in San Diego. And a big thanks to my mom for volunteering to go pick up Christy from Grandma Cosgrove so I can also go down this weekend and help un pack and put things away (who knows what would happen if I left it up to David). And this way I will be able to bring Dean and Ann home on Sunday so they don't have to haul their car. I am so excited. I can't wait to see David. Plus today I talked with my manager and let her know that I needed to quit earlier. So as soon as she gets back from maternity leave I will spend a few days letting her know where I am at with everything and then I get to quit. :) I like my job, and it will be sad to quit but I need to be with my husband!!!!

Tagged

All about me from A to Z.....

A)AttAcHeD Or SiNgLe? Attached
B)BeSt FrIeNd? David
C)CaKe Or PiE? depends..peach pie, angel food cake
D)DaY Of ChOiCe? Any day with David
E)EssEnTiAl ItEmS? toliet paper, and a bra :) (see previous post)
F)FaVoRiTe CoLoRs? purple & pink
G) GuMMy BeArS Or WoRmS? the peach colored bears
H)HoMeToWn? St. George
I)InDuLgEncE? long baths
J)JaNuArY Or JuLy? January..new begingings
K)KiDs? Christy and Shadow..and hoping for more
L) LiFe IsN't CoMpLeTe WiThOuT? family
M)MaRRiAge DaTe? June 11, 2008 :)
N)NuMbEr Of BrOtHeR aNd SisTeRs? 2 brothers, 4 sisters
O)OrAnGeS Or AppLeS? oranges
P)PhoBiAs Or FeArS? fear of being alone..David has solved that for the most part
Q)QoUtE? "look to the sun and all shadows fall behind" Helen Keller
R)ReAsOn To SmILe? so many reasons lately
S) SuPeRMan Or WoNdEr WoMaN? neither
T)TaG 5 PeOpLe I Tag? everyone on my friend and family list
U)UnKnOwN FaCt aBoUt Me? ummm....not sure. I never want another pet.
V)VeGGiEs? green peppers
W)WoRsT HaBBiT? stressing about things way too much
X)X-RaY Or UlTraSoUnd? Ultrasound
Y)YoUr FaVoRiTe FooD? salads
Z)ZoDiaC SiGn? gemini

This may make you laugh...

So I feel really dumb today. I forgot a bra today. I know you are probably wondering how in the world I forgot to put on my bra. Let me explain...after putting on so many layers, garments, tank top, t shirt, and scrub jacket. I guess I felt like I had everything on. Not so. I realized when I got to work my mistake. So now during my lunch break I will be running to Target to buy a bra. How embarrassing!!! And I wasn't even planning on taking a lunch today. Dang...
On a good note, David's sister Rachelle had her baby yesterday. They broke her water at 4 and at 5:04pm she had her baby. He was 9lbs 2 ounces, 21 1/2 inches long and his head was 15 inches around, and she did it without an epidural! Wonder woman. Both mom and baby are doing great.

I have the best husband in the world

I have the most amazing husband in the whole world!!!! So after the reunion David and Shadow came home to St. George. Sunday we had a good day, we were able to attend church as a family and then we spent Sunday afternoon and evening in Enterprise with David's family. Monday Shadow was scheduled for oral surgery. David spent time with Shadow before her surgery. They went to the mall and had pictures in one of those booths. So cute!!! Shadow's mom ended up taking her home after her surgery. After work David Christy and I went to the mall and David bought the other part of my ring. So pretty, I will get it back next week. Then we went and saw Wall E. It was a kinda corny movie and towards the end Christy was getting a little bored. Now to the good part. A few months ago I went a test drove a car at Hector and Rodolfos car lot. At the time I wasn't able to afford the car so I just stuck with my Civic. Anyways David has been driving a piece of junk. The AC doesn't work, it overheats and it looks like CRAP. So David was planning on getting a new car because his was not working for him driving back and forth from San Diego. So David decided Monday that he would go car shopping. He went to the lot and found out which car I had test drove and with out my knowledge started the process of buying it. He had to let me in on his little secret because he needed help with the insurance and other things. So my amazing, wonderful husband went and searched out the car that I wanted and bought it for me. It just amazes me that he was thinking more of me than himself. He let me keep the Accord and he took the Civic back to San Diego. I love David so much. There is no way I can express how wonderful he is. My life has changed so much for the better since I met him. I love him, I love him, I love David!!!!!!!

My new car, silver outside, tinted windows, sunroof
Leather interior, 6 disc changer

So nice... Thank you David

Bushar Family at the reunion

Shadow
My crazy girls
Our happy family
Well Christy looks happy
not sure what was going on...

These are pictures of the Bushar family at the reunion. David was lucky enough at the last minute to get his leave approved so he could come to the reunion. We had such a good time, for the most part. There were moments where David was tired of being around three females. Three moody females. The girls shared a bed and watched tv more than they slept. They both had so much fun at the pool. At the buffet the girls didn't eat a whole lot but they had fun. Sunday morning Shadow woke David and I up saying Christy had thrown up. So started the flu. We had such a good weekend. I am so thankful that David was able to get leave and come to the reunion.

Beasley Reunion

Grandma and Papa cuddling
Kayley and Kenneth playing
Fuzzy Kenneth at dinner
Munoz Family at dinner
yum, yum
oh, how cute
Crystal entertaining my girls

Meal time, papa is actually sitting down



Happy baby.

So over Fourth of July holiday we had our Bealsey family reunion in Las Vegas. We had a lot of fun! It was nice to be able to spend a semi-relaxing weekend with the family. We went swimming, went to a buffet, and saw a few things at casinos. For some reason a few of us came home with some kind of 24 hour flu.

Christys' RunAway

So we had a typical Sunday this past Sunday. Christy threw her usual ten minute fit the first part of sacrament meeting. She gave me an Indian burn, she punched me, and she kicked me with her ever so sharp Sunday shoes. All while screaming how I am the worst mom ever and how she is going to tell David how mean I am to her(now mind you we sit on the second row, and all this is happening in sacrament meeting). Needless to say I pick her up and carry her like a baby(she weighs 48 pounds and she is kicking and fighting) to the bathroom to calm her down. And on top of all this I have a Sunday headache. Finally I calm her down and we go back into sacrament meeting. Then about fifteen minutes before sacrament meeting is over Christy decides that she is too tired to sit like a big girl and starts flopping herself all over. By the time sacrament meeting was over I was DONE. We were going home and she was going to bed. So Christy spent most of Sunday in her room in bed. I couldn't handle her fit and my headache at the same time. So last night Christy is in the bath and I decide to go pick up her room. I pull out one of her purses from under her bed and there is a pair of pants and two pairs of underwear in the purse(all clean). I don't think anything about it and I put the clothes away. Then I notice her suitcase is under her bed(not where it usually is). I pull her suitcase out and notice that it is full. I open the suitcase and pull out pj's, a Sunday dress, a t shirt, a pair of shorts and some stuffed animals. So now I am starting to wonder. I yell to Christy "Why is your suitcase packed?" Christy yells back from the tub "I was going to run away". She had packed two purses, a backpack and her suitcase. She had everyday clothes, church clothes and church shoes, pj's and toys. She said she was going to go to her friends house for a few days and then come home. After I put everything away I realized that I should have taken a picture of her bags all packed. My little angel. I love her so much and I just try to remember that she is going thru so many changes right now and I just need to be patient and love her.